Actress Susan Peters |
Nollywood actress, Susan Peters, has compiled a
list of 'dos' and 'donts' on how men should treat their wives.
The married actress who quoted some Bibleverses to back her counsel took to Instagram to share these tips for men.
Read them below.
Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking.
It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife
will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
Do not share her love or affection with another
woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
Never compare your wife to another woman. If
the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor.
10:12)
Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She
owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed
so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating.
Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
Hide nothing from her. You are now one and
she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen.
2:25)
Do not make negative comment about her body.
She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not
just flesh and blood.
Do not let her body determine her worth.
Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
Never shout at her in the public and in
private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your
room. (Matt. 1:19)
Thank and appreciate her for taking good care
of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The
5:18)
All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for
several years. (Pro. 31:14)
Never place your siblings before her. She is
your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy
books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with
God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray.
(James 5:16)
Make time to play with her and enjoy her
company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your
friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
Never use money to manipulate or control her.
All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of
God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
Do not expose her weakness. You will be
exposing yourself
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