1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His
Mother.
There is a thin line
between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love
his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t
respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a
mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if
the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters.
Forget that he is the
older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of
strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters
won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and
yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is
the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious.
This type has only one
thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the
long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He
also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his
character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook.
Just ask yourself
some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are
sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What
will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your
husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely?
Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new
mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook.
This is quite common
in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite
demeaning. The ruth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes
only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he
believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will
rather buy food than cook. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him.
This type thinks he
is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and
expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram.
There is a new trend
lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all
lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures
like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society.
Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the
pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural &
Normal for Him To Philander.
It is not and will
never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe
and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every
man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is
wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with
this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You.
Wow, this one will
show you pepper in marriage. You cannot question his actions or inactions. He
will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time
he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family
without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awn
team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’. He will wake up one morning and tell you to
change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what
went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape
& Child Molestation Seriously.
Just take note of
your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is
the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female,
you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be
dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear
stories.
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