Moms want us to know
that we are wonderful just as we are, but they also help us set goals to
improve ourselves on the inside and on the outside, too. And they always think
about us in extraordinary ways like no one else can. Now that’s something to be
thankful for. They love us with no strings attached, in fact moms have
magical powers. They can kiss your cut finger and make it feel better, and say
just the right thing to lift your spirit when everything seems to be going
against you. They can even convince you that it’s a good idea to eat your
vegetables before reaching for dessert. Find out the best way you can make
mum’s day!
Thank your mother for
comforting you during storms.
Moms are like human
tranquilizers, offering us a voice of calmness in ways that no one else can.
When I was 4, thunderstorms terrified me. I scurried to the closet and hid till
they passed. My mom would always join me in the darkness, put her arm around my
shoulder, and assure me that we were going to be okay. Even today when a loud
noise startles me, like a car backfiring, I flash back to my mom’s soothing
words. What “storms” has your mother helped you weather? Thank her for being
there!
Thank your mom for
making you feel valued.
One of the greatest
gifts your mother probably gave you was the feeling of being a valued human
being. My mom loved bringing festivity to occasions when I accomplished
something new; she also loved to spontaneously celebrate life by singing and
dancing with me on a whim. I often think of the optimistic emotional climate in
which I was raised, and I believe my encouraging attitude today is because of
that. This is a great point to make this Mother’s Day when you say “thank you.”
Thank her for the gift
of wisdom.
When I was born, my
mother was 20 years older than me, 20 years smarter than me, and 20 years
wiser. Somewhere along the way, I realized that my mother has always had this
advantage and always will. It’s with this wisdom that mothers not only teach us
how to flap our wings and fly on our own, but encourage us to soar as high as
we can as they coax us out of the nest. I’m nearly 70 now, and I find that my
mother still has those advantages over me. That’s worth mentioning on this
Mother’s Day, isn’t it?
Thank mom for delaying her dreams, and
even giving them up so you could fulfill on yours.
Yeah, Mother’s Day cards
make fun of the diapering years and putting up with the terrible twos, terrible
tweeds and teens, and even terrible 20s. The reality, though, is that your mom
helped you to dream things that you’d not yet dreamed, which gave new
excitement to your unfolding life. This Mother’s Day, thank your mom for the
hope that she gave you when you felt hopeless. She always saw your failures as
temporary, and helped you to see that, too.
Go beyond “thanking” get out there and support your
mother like she’s always supported you. Has your mother always wanted to take a
trip someplace? Start a hobby? Write a book? There’s something she’s always wanted to do, and there’s some way
you can help make it a reality. Your mom cared for you as though you were a
golden treasure. Reverse the roles; it’s your turn to give back. Your world
spins because of your mother; help your mother’s world to spin again because of
you. Answer the call to serve by supporting your mom with what is important to
her right now.
As this annual second
Sunday in May comes to pass, don’t let the greeting card companies do your
talking. Don’t let a gift card trek to a local store, do your walking. Well, of
course you can still do those things, but take the time to make the extra
effort. Take a step toward investing in Mom the way she’s invested in you
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